Do you trust me?
When our oldest son, now 14, was a preschooler, my friend Brigid told me about an experience she had with her own preschooler after Mass one Sunday. It was shortly before Christmas and gifts for needy children were arranged under a tree near the front of church. While Brigid and her husband were chatting with some friends and the priest, her son grabbed a present, brought it back to the group, and asked if he could open it.
“I let the priest handle that one,” I remember Brigid telling me. “I wanted to see how he would explain to a 4-year-old that the presents were for other children.”
At the time, I remember being amazed that Brigid decided to give the situation to the priest. I knew that if Jacob had done something similar, I would have been mortified and would have quickly taken matters into my own hands. But a decade more into parenting, Brigid’s decision to let someone else lead the lesson sticks with me.