Megamind

By |2010-11-04T15:59:06-05:00Nov 4, 2010|General|

MegamindAnimated characters Roxanne Ritchi, voiced by Tina Fey, and Megamind, voiced by Will Farrell are pictured in the movie "Megamind." The USCCB Office for Film & Broadcasting classification is A-II – adults and adolescents. The Motion Picture Association o f America rating is PG – parental guidance suggested. Some material may not be suitable for children. (CNS photo/DreamWorks)NEW YORK –– At its core, "Megamind" (Paramount) is a parable about an individual's positive nature battling to overcome his negative nurturing.

Director Tom McGrath's generally endearing 3-D animated adventure offers older kids enough worthy lessons about making good use of talents and abilities, and about the dangers of allowing others to define who you are, to outweigh its occasional indulgence in mild bathroom humor.

Victim to that unfortunate upbringing is the titular character (voiced by Will Ferrell), a basically good-hearted alien whose supposed villainy toward humans is largely nominal.

Due Date

By |2010-11-04T14:59:44-05:00Nov 4, 2010|General|

DueDateRobert Downey Jr. and Zach Galifianakis star in a scene from the movie "Due Date." The Catholic News Service classification is O – morally offensive. The Motion Picture Association of America is R -- restricted. Under 17 requires accompanying parent or adult guardian. (CNS photo/Warner Bros.)NEW YORK –– In director John Hughes' 1987 hit "Planes, Trains and Automobiles," two comic geniuses, Steve Martin and John Candy, played unlikely companions thrown together on a mishap-plagued journey home for Thanksgiving.

Tinged with tenderness, the proceedings eventually saw the two become friends after Martin's character discovered the endearing qualities lurking beneath Candy's bumbling ways.

Though it traces a similar arc, and invites comparison with Hughes' film, the sour comedy "Due Date" (Warner Bros.) is marked by a profoundly different tone: hard-edged, mean-spirited and, at times, violent.

For Colored Girls

By |2010-11-01T15:42:33-05:00Nov 1, 2010|General|

For-Colored-GirlsKimberly Elise and Phylicia Rashad star in a scene from the movie "For Colored Girls." The Catholic News Service classification is O – morally offensive. The Motion Picture Association of America is R – restricted. Under 17 requires accompanying parent or adult guardian. (CNS photo/Lionsgate)NEW YORK –– A good man is hard to find in writer-director Tyler Perry's ensemble drama "For Colored Girls" (Lionsgate).

As well as allowing for only one positive male character in an unusually large cast, the misguided feminist values underlying his script also take for granted behavior quite at odds with Judeo-Christian sexual ethics, and hold out, as the sole source of hope for a series of embattled characters, the discovery of the "God-within-myself" and female solidarity.

This screen version of Ntozake Shange's 1974 play, "For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide/When the Rainbow is Enuf," shuttles among the lives of nine New York-based African-American women to present a downbeat exploration of the personal effects of numerous societal ills. The dialogue is studded with verbally impressive, but sometimes dramatically distancing, poetic set pieces.

Saw 3-D

By |2010-11-01T15:37:51-05:00Nov 1, 2010|General|

NEW YORK –– If memory serves, it was the editors of Mad magazine who coined the expression "Yecch!" Whoever armed us with that handy exclamation, it certainly springs to mind while meditating – if one must – on the repellant "Saw" franchise that began in 2004.

True to form, as directed by Kevin Greutert, "Saw 3-D" (Lionsgate), the seventh of these misuses of celluloid, turns out to be nothing more than gruesome, dehumanizing and – despite its title – very much one-dimensional torture porn. But even saying so seems as redundant, by now, as this unwelcome sequel itself.

Yet again, agony awaits – for characters and audiences alike – as ex-police Detective Hoffman (Costas Mandylor) carries on the twisted work of the late, unlamented Jigsaw (Tobin Bell, who puts in a cameo via video and flashbacks).

Books on marriage offer thoughtful research, practical tips

By |2010-11-01T15:34:02-05:00Nov 1, 2010|General|

"More Perfect Unions: The American Search for Marital Bliss" by Rebecca L. Davis. Harvard University Press (Cambridge, Mass., 2010). 259 pp., $29.95.

"What I Wish Someone Had Told Me About the First Five Years of Marriage" by Roy Petitfils. St. Anthony Messenger Press (Cincinnati, 2010). 103 pp., $12.95.

Each year millions of American couples seek counseling to save their marriages. Their reasons go far beyond a desire for personal fulfillment; they see this institution as the very glue that holds society together. In "More Perfect Unions," an intriguing and thoughtful study, Rebecca L. Davis traces the evolution of Americans' intense commitment to heterosexual marriage.

"Americans care deeply about marriages – their own and other people's – because they have made enormous investments of time, money and emotion in trying to improve their own relationships, because they idealize what a good marriage can offer, and because they believe that the stakes extend far beyond their personal decisions about whom to marry or whether to divorce," she writes.

Parenting, the job that never ends

By |2010-10-28T17:02:10-05:00Oct 28, 2010|General|

MaryangelaMy youngest sister, Elise and her husband, Mike, recently celebrated the birth of their first child, Wyatt James. In fact, Wyatt arrived on 10-10-10 at 10 …. 54 p.m.!

It’s exciting to have a new baby in the family, even if he is miles away in Arizona. Hearing Elise talk about Wyatt and how he’s changed life in their household brings back many memories of our own early parenting years: little sleep, interrupted nights, seemingly endless diaper changes and even the dreaded chore of packing the diaper bag before venturing out with the baby.

Oh, it seemed so challenging, and it also seemed like it would never end. But the sleepless nights, diapers, baby food jars and stroller-toting days did end and now that I look back, they seem like a blip in time. And, what has replaced them in some ways is so much more challenging.

There are still sleepless nights, but now it’s not a baby keeping us awake; it’s a teenager with a car out at the Friday night football game or at the homecoming dance; and instead of chasing a toddler, it’s trying to balance the various schedules of three active girls; instead of scheduling doctors’ appointments to make sure vaccines are up-to-date, it’s arranging college visits and making sure applications are turned in on time.

When our girls were little, I could control virtually everything around them, from what they ate to when they slept and where they went.

But as they grow older, my ability to control them and their environments lessens. Certainly that’s a good thing and it’s part of the process where they learn to be their own individuals and make choices for themselves, but as a parent it sure can be difficult.

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